ABOUT PEGGY

A life that looks good on the outside and the search for whats missing inside

  • IFS Practitioner - IFS Institute Trained

  • Self-Led Results Coach

I'm Peggy Popielarz a Self-Led Results Coach and IFS Practitioner trained through the IFS Institute.

I work with women who feel disconnected, unsettled, and quietly unhappy in the life they've worked so hard to build. Women who, from the outside, appear to have it together and who carry privately the ache of something they can't quite name or explain.

I know that experience at a personal level. It shaped everything about how I work.

A life that looks good on the outside and the search for whats missing inside

  • IFS Practitioner - IFS Institute Trained

  • Self-Led Results Coach

ABOUT PEGGY

A life that looks good on the outside and the search for whats missing inside

  • IFS Practitioner - IFS Institute Trained

  • Self-Led Results Coach

image of Peggy standing in nature

I'm Peggy Popielarz a Self-Led Results Coach and IFS Practitioner trained through the IFS Institute.

I work with women who feel disconnected, unsettled, and quietly unhappy in the life they've worked so hard to build. Women who, from the outside, appear to have it together and who carry privately the ache of something they can't quite name or explain.

I know that experience at a personal level. It shaped everything about how I work.

The wanderer

Separate pieces,stitched into something whole

The wanderer, a quilt made by Peggy showing an elephant
The wanderer, a quilt made by Peggy showing an elephant

Over 20 years ago, quilting became a profound passion. The process of selecting and stitching each fabric piece together was more than a creative outlet. It was a way to transform scattered pieces into something whole. Each quilt carried a story, woven from contrast, texture, and depth.

Over time, that act of quilting began to mirror something much deeper: the integration of different parts of ourselves into a whole. Life eventually led me away from quilting and into a different kind of stitching together.

The quilt on the cover of the Parts Work Guidebook is called The Wanderer. Much like the elephant stepping beyond its frame into full expression, the work I do with women is about recognizing, healing, and integrating the parts of themselves that have been quietly shaping their reality from behind the scenes.

The quilt on the cover of the Parts Work Guidebook is called The Wanderer. Much like the elephant stepping beyond its frame into full expression, the work I do with women is about recognizing, healing, and integrating the parts of themselves that have been quietly shaping their reality from behind the scenes.

Looking at this quilt now, I see a full-circle moment. Though my hands once pieced together fabric, today the work is about helping women piece together something far more valuable: their sense of self, their truth, their wholeness.

How I came to this work

My own quiet search

The women I work with are thoughtful, capable, and deeply caring. They're the ones others rely on. They show up for their relationships, families, work, and responsibilities, yet privately feel as though something is missing.

Many have spent years investing in their growth through books, courses, workshops, retreats, holistic therapies, spiritual practices, and countless conversations aimed at understanding themselves more deeply. Yet despite all they have learned, something still feels unresolved. They understand themselves intellectually, yet still feel disconnected from themselves in the moments that matter most.

I understand that experience personally.

For many years, I immersed myself in health, wellness, and personal development. I owned a health food store, became a body practitioner, and explored numerous approaches to healing and growth. While I genuinely wanted to help others, I was also searching for something myself.

I had people who loved me. I had meaningful work. From the outside, there was so much I could point to and say, "I should be happy."

The women I work with are thoughtful, capable, and deeply caring. They're the ones others rely on. They show up for their relationships, families, work, and responsibilities, yet privately feel as though something is missing.

Many have spent years investing in their growth through books, courses, workshops, retreats, holistic therapies, spiritual practices, and countless conversations aimed at understanding themselves more deeply. Yet despite all they have learned, something still feels unresolved. They understand themselves intellectually, yet still feel disconnected from themselves in the moments that matter most.

I understand that experience personally.

For many years, I immersed myself in health, wellness, and personal development. I owned a health food store, became a body practitioner, and explored numerous approaches to healing and growth. While I genuinely wanted to help others, I was also searching for something myself.

I had people who loved me. I had meaningful work. From the outside, there was so much I could point to and say, "I should be happy."

Yet beneath it all was a quiet sense of emptiness I couldn't fully explain. I didn't feel the way I thought I should feel in the life I had built.

Yet beneath it all was a quiet sense of emptiness I couldn't fully explain. I didn't feel the way I thought I should feel in the life I had built.

One question stayed with me: Why do some people experience lasting change while others continue to struggle despite doing all the right things?

Over time, I came to realize that lasting change is not only about what we do on the outside. It is also shaped by our relationship with ourselves, the beliefs we carry, the emotions we push aside, the protective patterns we develop, and the parts of us quietly influencing how we experience our lives.

That realization changed the direction of my own journey and ultimately became the foundation of the work I do today.

Discovering IFS

A different way to relate to myself

Discovering Internal Family Systems changed the way I understood myself and others. It opened my eyes to the fact that there was a whole world happening inside me. I had my own internal family of parts that I had been living with my entire life without truly realizing they were there.

Instead of seeing my emotional reactions, protective behaviors, or inner conflict as something wrong with me, I began to understand them as parts of me that had been trying to help me get through life in the only ways they knew how.

Many of those ways of coping developed when I was young. They made sense then. But years later, those same parts were still running on outdated strategies, shaping how I related, what I allowed, what I avoided, and unknowingly creating pain in the life I was living.

That understanding became the foundation of the work I do today.

I trained through the IFS Institute and was mentored in Self-Led Results Coaching by Bill Tierney. That training deepened not only my understanding of the model but my capacity to hold space for the kind of inner work that creates real and lasting change.

My work is grounded in IFS and parts work, helping women relate to their inner world with more understanding and compassion while bringing awareness to the deeper patterns and internal dynamics that continue to shape how they move through life.

Beyond private coaching

Community & group work

Parts Work Practice Community

Alongside my private coaching work, I am also one of the leaders helping carry forward Parts Work Practice, a community devoted to helping people learn and practice the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model for their own personal growth within supportive group spaces.

Women’s

Practice Group

I also facilitate a separate women’s Parts Work Practice group as an extension of the larger community, offering women a more intimate place to practice parts work, deepen self-understanding, and explore their inner world alongside others doing similar work.

Community & group work

Parts Work Practice Community

Alongside my private coaching work, I am also one of the leaders helping carry forward Parts Work Practice, a community devoted to helping people learn and practice the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model for their own personal growth within supportive group spaces.

Beyond private coaching

Community and

group work

Community & group work

Parts Work Practice Community

Alongside my private coaching work, I am also one of the leaders helping carry forward Parts Work Practice, a community devoted to helping people learn and practice the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model for their own personal growth within supportive group spaces.

Women’s

Practice Group

I also facilitate a separate women’s Parts Work Practice group as an extension of the larger community, offering women a more intimate place to practice parts work, deepen self-understanding, and explore their inner world alongside others doing similar work.

A little more about me

Outside the work

Reading a book with a cup of tea

Reading and continuing my own inner work, because I believe that the capacity to hold space for others is only as deep as the relationship you hold with yourself.

Alberta Rocky Mountains landscape

The Alberta Rocky Mountains have a way of putting things in perspective. Time there restores something in me that is hard to name and easy to recognize.

Baking fresh sourdough bread

Attempting to master the ongoing mystery of homemade sourdough bread — with mixed results and no plans to stop trying.

For me, this work has never been only about the individual. When a woman begins to understand herself differently, it ripples outward into how she relates, loves, chooses, speaks, and shows up in the life around her.

When you're ready

The beginning of a different
relationship with
yourself

You're welcome to explore the resources on the site, join the women's practice group, or book a clarity call — a calm, no-pressure conversation to explore what's going on and whether this work feels like the right fit.

Not sure where to begin? Start here.

Reach out. I'm happy to answer any questions you may have..

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